Not going to bore you with the details, but my wife and I have been on the journey to conceive since March 2018, and we haven't even had a single procedure yet due to red tape and stupid laws.

So we were scheduled to try at the end of this month, and we have been feeling optimistic. We have a known donor who lives across the country. Apparently, he needed to undergo more testing before the cryobank could release his stuff to us (which is the reason we couldn't try last month). So he mas de an appointment and went in... and they didn't have the supplies to do the testing! And he is leaving on vacation with no return ticket. *sigh*

The universe does not want us to have children yet.