I want my tubes tied, but I feel guilty.

I only want 1 child, my husband is on the same page. Our little girl is coming on 9 months now and I am so over family asking us when we are going to have another. It is a very personal question and honestly it took 3 stressful years just to make the one we have..... When I try to explain that we aren't going to, they always respond with "you have to" and "that's not fair to your child" and "but you made a beautiful baby, you need to make more". They constantly brush off our choice as a phase and seem to think we will change our minds. I want to get my tubes tied, but I wonder now down the line if I will change my mind. I think they might be getting into my head.

Anyone else struggling with this?

****Thank you ladies so much for commenting and making me feel less alone. It's so hard to read the posts on other August mums wanting to be pregnant again while wondering to myself why I don't feel the same way. 💜