Okay so my husband and i have been married 7 months. We literally never fight or anything. Lately when we go to have sex its me usually starting it because i have a higher sex drive than him but its like most times he just doesn't seem into it or he goes soft really quick. I am 23 and he is almost 27. Other than that our marriage is great. We usually have sex like once a week. He has been under a lot of stress with changing jobs and everything and hes work wearing him out since he worked outside in the sun all day.