My twin boys are 3 and they are controlling my entire life!!! I’m a single mom so it’s just me and them. But I can’t take it anymore, I’m miserable! I cry constantly! It’s affecting my entire life, my personal relationships, my job!

I went to the pediatrician on Saturday and he was lecturing me on how to parent and was telling me that the twins are ruling me. He said I need to get things under control now!

I honestly have no idea how to start to get them to listen. They literally NEVER listen to me! Ive tried saying no, counting, yelling, spanking, taking away toys. NOTHING works!

Is there any books out there or websites that can help me? Anything anyone can suggest?

Please be nice! Thank you!