Hello all,

I have a question and very curious to know about ur partner/husband masturbating even though there is a healthy relationship. I feel we are on good terms yes my drive is Higher I feel then his. I see at times he will masturbate but rather going at it with me? Or he says sometime I am not available so he does it or traveling. My question is if he was in travel for 3 days and let’s assume he did for 2 days now that he is back he is very tired and fatigued so he will not do anything with me but chooses to masturbate or asks me to help him out. He says it’s jut a stress relief and sometimes it’s faster when ur tired this is easier etc but I feel really hurt and it bugs me that I am there for his needs so he should and can’t masturbate cause I am as wife available. Do i have a valid argument? Should he can he do that? Does this mean he is just enjoying more and not enjoying with me? Pls help it’s bugging me. I read on internet it’s very common even with healthy relationship. TIA