Hi girls,

I feel really upset atm, and I don’t know if it is really necessary to feel upset because of this.

My bf always says how he will never do drugs or smoke weed and stuff. But a few days ago we couldn’t see each other because he was working on a projetct. The day after he told me how it went and everything and even told me that some guys smoked weed but he didn’t. And he was the sober one.

But yesterday when I was with him at a friend of his. The friend asked “hey did it hit you?” And than referred to space cake. And in my mind I was thinking what the fuck...did I heard it right?

So I felt hurt that he didn’t mentioned it at all and also that he ate it meanwhile he always says he will never do things like that.

I asked him just now about it and he said yes, I guess I couldn’t believe it and he said to believe what I want it’s nothing to talk about anyway so. Idk I am just upset about it , I didn’t think he’ll actually do something like that and not mentioned it.

I guess I’m more upset because he didn’t tell me before

Update:

So now my bf is mad at me for “making a big deal” out of it and saying I am always playing the victim...meanwhile he hid info from me and I was worried...He stared to argue while I was trying to just put my point of view out there and just say that his choice upset me. But he took it wrong way as if I was scolding him, oh and he said that just by mentioning the fact that I was upset was something a 15 year old does haha like wtf. I approached him in the most mature way as I can think of and didn’t even demand him to not do anything and only told him that he upset me by leaving info out.

Now he isn’t talking to me on text, and he doesn’t text unless I do, but he answers only “ok”...I only heard from him this morning before workout I always tell him because he likes to know I am safe and the last two days I didn’t go workout and he didn’t even check in like he used to...and I haven’t seen him at all

Idk what to do, I don’t want to text him and get last seen or a cold answer ...and I know he probably doesn’t want to see me do I won’t dare go to his house😞 I didn’t want to cause a problem but it happened anyhow... when I don’t hear from him at all I worry and now I can’t stop worrying.