Mother in law troubles

Nicole

So when I had my son on Mother’s Day my boyfriend and my mom were in the room. Before my mom could even hold him she came in the room and grabbed him from my boyfriend and kissed him. Now I told everyone I didn’t want anyone kissing him except me and the dad just because of him just being born and people could be sick. I didn’t even kiss him yet which pissed me off. Then she held him for the longest time and wouldn’t let other people hold him and referred to him as “hers” or “her baby” I graduate this Thursday and I was un decided if I wanted her to watch him or if I was gonna take him. Well I decided that I’m going to take him and she is angry cuz she can’t watch him. Now today she is visiting him and he is sleeping which he does a lot and she has been trying to wake him up by undressing him or moving him all around. I need to feed him soon and really don’t want her here when I’m breastfeeding him or pumping. Idk if I have a right to mad but I am. Me and her have also had issues where she wants me to baptize him and I said no and she told me if I didn’t he would go to hell. She had the nerve to post that on my Facebook. Idk I guess I’m just frustrated...