So I started talking/dating a man in the military who is also my brothers best friend, crazy I know. But I leave for Texas to see him and my brothers family on Friday. I celebrate my 21st next week! I know how crazy the military life style is and how it can change rapidly with their schedules so I knew what I was getting myself into. It sucks but it also is his job and nothing we can do about it and just stay positive. I reassured him that I’m in this for the long run and not giving up easily! He’s upset cause his higher up told him he might not be able to take leave now and go out with me in my bday, but like I said, I knew what I was getting into!