HPV I was told it's common?

I was not not sexually active for 14 years. Recently had sex with a man Iv known for over a year. My pap came back positive for HPV. I'm waiting to find out what type I have. Or the strain rather. I don't have genital warts. But possibly the uterus cancer type. I'm so angry I could scream & cry. I also haven't told him yet.