I know that my boyfriend has trouble with pornography. We’ve talked about getting married. We both say that we want that. I definitely see a future with him. We’ve talked about moving in together. I’ve been to his family events. He’s now met all of my family. My family loves him.

However, I don’t actually know how to help the situation. I fully understand that there needs to be an outside accountability partner, to go to, and confide in. At the same time though, we need to be able to grow together as a couple. I’m a bit at a loss of what to do. How do I help, without being a nag who drives a stake in our relationship?