—-Losing virginity questions: PLEASE HELP I NEED TO BE PREPARED—-
Ok- I met this guy a few weeks ago at an overnight mountain biking competition with my team. I am 15, he is turning 18 in a week. we met and had an insane amount of chemistry. within six hours of hanging out with a group and getting to know each other, I made a move when we were lying under the stars together just us. we started making out and hands began to *wander,* but we didn’t go very far. He lives 40 minute drive away, so we have talked on snap almost every day since that amazing night. once June comes along and we don’t have school, we have planned to meet up. also- we have talked about our boundaries and what status we hold together. He is going on his gap year in three months, so we want to have an amazing last summer together. I’m a virgin but have wanted to have sex for a while, and am on consistent birth control pills. I have told him that when we meet up I want to go all the way and we have communicated thoroughly on how we feel. He is incredibly respectful and has made it clear over and over again that if I am not comfortable with anything, that he will stop. He is an amazing person and I think he is the right guy to lose my virginity to. I do have some questions tho so try to answer lol I am pretty confused:
- What would be a romantic/fun full-day date idea that could lead to sex?
- Is car sex manageable for a virgin (as in, would it be too cramped haha)
- My friends don’t know that we have discussed having sex so how should I tell them that I am ready and planning on losing my virginity with him?
- When giving him head as foreplay, should I bring him to orgasm before we fuck or should I leave him on edge to make the sex better??
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