Going to church while TTC

The last time I attended church service was Mothers Day. My husband and I have been taking break from church for the past few months. We were badgered by the other members for months so I gently explained to them we were having some slight difficulties & to continue praying for us. The next thing I knew, they had the pastor "laying hands on me" everyother service 😒 I know they were just trying to help, but it started getting annoying. The church mothers even started to give me advice on how to have sex 😳 sex position and all. Certain services like Mothers Day is really hard for me. Share your own experiences with church while TTC!