He said I’m loose

So as of late my man and I have been having frequent fights and he can never see that he’s wrong until someone else tell him, which irritates me more. Either way it’s been three weeks or so since we’ve had sex. Mostly because I just haven’t been in the mood around him but I decided to give it a try yesterday. So he came twice and after the second time he says to me “you feel different”. In my mind I’m wondering what he’s talking about because I haven’t had sex with anyone but him. So I ask “different how?” And his response was I feel wider. I felt so disrespected and self conscious and irritated too because I didn’t even cum.

So ladies, I guess what I’m asking is how would you respond?