ladies, I’ve taken a long time from my last relationship to recover from it. I’ve taken the time to collect myself and find out who I am and what I want. I’m having a hard time finding a true boyfriend, who doesn’t only want sex or who doesn’t want to just be friends with benefits. I don’t exactly know how to find love, online dating sites are full of people who just want to have sex and clubs are bars are the same. I’m quite lost and I’m watching all of my friends getting married and starting to have lives with their soulmate, as i just attend the weddings and baby showers. How do I find that, any suggestions?