I don’t even know anymore. I don’t know how to talk to him. I bottle it up and he says I’m cold. I communicate and he tells me I’m petty, a asshole, a bitch. I’m 7 1/2 months pregnant and so tired. Things between us keep getting worse. What am I doing wrong. I feel so defeated

Me to John: I have a couple things I wanted to talk about but it's not important so we can talk tonight.

Tonight..

John: what was on your mind?

Me: well 1st, I was wondering if when you feed Ash if you could clean the high chair tray when he's done so that it doesn't get crust overnight. The. I don't have to scramble to clean it right as he's ready to eat.

2nd, you said you wanted to keep Freckles and that you would train her but you don't really have time for it so I was just wondering what we should do about that.

3rd, last night you asked me what I needed from you bc I've been exhausted and have had a headache for a couple days and I told you to spend time with Ash so I could rest my feet and back. As soon as I sat down so did you, in front of your game. Well, I noticed Ash kept looking at you and talking to you and you would look over and tell him "yeah" so he started bringing me toys and wanting someone's attention. I got up and took him to his room and played with him, read to him, then put him to sleep and went to bed. Maybe you could put the game up until he goes to sleep

John: well I wanted to relax

Me: but so did I and I was the one who was supposed to be relaxing?

John: you disappoint me and are just a sad person. You're so petty to bring these things up. I really think you need to see a therapist bc none of those things matter yet you let them bother you so much.

Me... totally confused

Then he said "well how about I just start working more and come home when it's time to kiss him goodnight"