I know this ^ is funny.. But i want see the real.. What is your position in a family gathering?

In my family im the one trying prove myself. Make sure everyone is happy or comfortable, even if its not my house. All be handing oit food and such. But then im butt of jokes, or someone makes a smartass comments. I giggle but deep down im thinking "really.. That was years ago. It actually hurts my feelings".

Thats me.