I broke up with this guy I had been seeing for only 1 month recently. I called him. BUT I made sure he was home, I made sure to call HIM, instead of just randomly springing it on him in a random phone call, and I made sure he was in his room for privacy. I proceeded to, while sobbing, explain my whole side of things, allowing him to ask any question he wanted so he had full closure. I think it was better than in person, since he was able to keep his dignity and break down in private, plus he lived 45mins from me. I still feel terrible about this, and it happened a few weeks after Valentine's day. I should get over how bad I feel by now. Any other thought or opinions? Did I do a bad job? Let me know for the future!