Why am I crumbling and he’s ok.

melissa

Going through a terrible separation. Got thrown out of the house 5 days later get served with custody papers. 2 days later go to the house to get something’s I need and he changed the locks. Seriously? What else could possibly go wrong!

I am just beside myself. I love him with all I have. Clearly he wanted this. He is happy and I am over here just beside myself.

Why does this have to happen to me. I want to be strong but I literally am drowning.

We have one child together, and I have a child from a previous who calls him dad.

He has not asked once about him and my child is so depressed I can see the hurt in his eyes. It’s killing me. I haven’t heard him laugh in a week. He told me he doesn’t want to get out of bed and he’s young so I know he’s not aware of depression.

How do I deal with keeping us strong?