I don’t really know where else to turn to and I really hope this is anonymous!

My husband and I have been married just under one year. When I met him he was always amazing, never out of control and never worried me.

Once or twice before the wedding he’d got a little out of control after a few drinks. Never physical- but more so humiliating me in front of others or just being rude to my friends partners etc.

I thought it was just a one off kind of thing, but it’s not gotten to the point where I can’t take him to anything social. He ruins nights and I have anxiety at the thought of going to events that go for hours where he has access to alcohol.

Before u say it- he’s not an alcoholic bc he doesn’t drink all week sometimes even weeks at a time.

It’s hit a low point and I don’t know how to get over this. I love him and he’s a good man. Besides this issue- I’ve nothing to complain about.

I feel like I need some help with this and have no where trustworthy to turn, so thought I’d post it here 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thanks if you’ve read this far xx