How much is TOO much ?

Hey all,

I’ve been with my partner for 3 years by now. Lately we seem distant from each other and things are changing which I know is normal in a relationship, but lately we argue so often.

How much arguing is too much arguing?

Shouldn’t we not be arguing so much by now after years together. We are trying to get engaged in a year but sometimes I’m afraid we are not ready. :/ Any respectful

opinions or thoughts ?