I'm trying to get some insight/thoughts planned out before I snap and things get chaotic.

My husband is a creature of habit, a sedimentary being, lazy, even.

Our 2 year old on the other hand is....well...a 2 year old. You know, the endless energy, lack of communication, and lack of self-control.

My husband will not accept this and recently it's been putting a huge strain on our relationship as a family. He will not accept the laziness and lack of interaction with the 2 year old is what's causing alot of his behavior.

He's BORED. Watching you, (husband) sitting on the couch all day is BORING. Not playing with him and telling him to go do it himself is BORING. No wonder he's getting into everything or whining. But no, it's the 2 year olds fault. And tonight he yelled at our 5 week baby in frustration because he's been fussy from reflux. I almost snapped right there. I just need some thoughts from people who maybe have dealt with it?

I know a baby can put a lot onto anyone but he's been doing this since our first son could walk.