So the father of my child have an interview coming up on wednesday. He says he need money for interview clothes. I checked his bank account and he literally has $6.75 in his account but only has access to $1.75. Our baby is due in july so he needs this job. i’m wondering would i do myself more wrong by not giving him money for the clothes (he needs the job to help me with the baby) He had the money before but decided to go to miami instead. i asked him what happened and he just said oh he had to eat while there. he’s “been looking” for a job since before i got pregnant. maybe september. he has no family. his mom is dead and his sister is tired of his shit. i think she doesn’t want to help him and he also doesn’t want to ask her for help.

I would normally help him out but i’m trying to work on not being dependable. He always hurting me. I’m away from home in college. when i went home from spring break, he had condoms in his wallet. he left one night and i couldn’t get in reach with him until 5 am. when he came back there wasn’t any condoms.. long story short he left from me. we had sex multiple times and he went to go fuck another girl (i’m 5/6 months pregnant at the time). on mother’s day i find out a girl he was having sex with was sending him money so i cursed both of them out and he told me to kill my son & that i’m dead to him. throughout my pregnancy he has told me to kill my son, possibly got someone else pregnant, had sex with multiple people, threaten to kill my aunt and still when he’s hungry, stuck somewhere or situations like this i sent him money. I was working at first but i got so stressed out and depressed that i started to take things out at work and basically got fired. now my son is 50 days away and only have a few onesies, some bottles and a pack of pampers.

the person i am. i truly want to help him but i’m tired. i’m tired of being hurt and taken for granted. the little money i do get i try to save for my son or buy him things. should i help him out so in the long run it can help me out or just let him figure it out?