TV and juice

My parents get really mad at me because I limit TV and don't give juice to my 1 year old. They sya TV is fine and every parent uses TV sometimes because kids like it. I try to tell them people on here told me TV is bad for kids and I see people get called bad moms because they let thier kid watch TV so I'm afraid to and they say I'm being stupid.I feel like some TV is okay but I don't want to be seen as a bad mom so I don't do it. But I'd I don't at all my family says I'm a bad mom. I feel like I'm always torn with all my parenting decisions and ever do the right things because one person says one thing and bother says another thing and if I pick one or the other I'm still doing something wrong. How do I manage all this? I just want to be a good mom