Bf stashing condoms

A bag full of condoms. Claims he found them in his car and they’re old. I’m like if you didn’t plan on using them, then why put them in the drawer instead of the trash. Together 4 years and don’t use condoms, so they’re not for me. He’s cheated before and I just don’t think I can do it anymore. There’s no reason to take them from the car to the bedroom if you aren’t planning to use them. And he got a phone call almost 1 am saying it’s his mother’s friend. I’m like, what kind of relationship do you have that she thinks it’s ok to call you at 1 am for a non emergency. And then I’m the bad person for bringing these things up. And of course I’m not allowed to look at his phone. Meanwhile for years , he had my password. I’ve never had his.

Edit: and it’s crazy because he literally just begged to get back with me. Showing up at my house etc