Sons Father thinks he struggles more 🤷🏼‍♀️

Mercedes • Momma of 2 👦🏼 👶🏼 💕 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 Grew up in Bmore, but living in the Florida Sun

Alright ladies,

So my sons father things because he drove 9hrs to come see our sons pre-k graduation he should be held to drive and get his son for the summer. Yes, I live in NC and he lives in MD and it’s about an 8-9hr drive depending on the way you take.

I work at a hotel and got him a rate of $39 before tax when rates are at $144 during the time period of them being there.

He then tells me that after we talked on the phone agreed my son would stay with him the last night he is there so spend time with him, he can no longer stay because he doesn’t have the money. So I proceeded to pay about $80 of the second nights stay so my son doesn’t get hurt.

We drove back with my Step mom and Aunt who stayed the entire holiday weekend (Memorial Day) and then we are spending time with family and friends I left behind when I moved 5yrs ago.

(Yes I know I moved it’s my own fault, but I make a trip to come see family or drive this way to bring my son at most 3 times a year.)

But to continue, we are taking my son camping at Harpers Ferry Thursday-Sunday (Father’s day weekend) and then my son will go to his father about noon and for the summer.

He is assuming I am driving back with kodi and making him drive half way to get my son. 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

I started to get technical with him because he is trying to take my niceness for granted. In our mediation agreement that was signed by a judge, he is not to get my son until two weeks after the last day or school (which isn’t Father’s Day) and thinking I paid for the room because he didn’t have the money but the entire time I didn’t want my son to be disappointed by his father again.

I typically don’t post this much info or screenshots but I need to know if I’m in the wrong or if I’m being to kind.