Tips for communication

Ok ladies and gentlemen. I’ve been seeing a lot of questions where the answer boils down to -communication-. So here’s my tip for bringing up stuff you want your SO to know, either stuff you wanna do or stuff they might be doing wrong, stuff like that. Ok. Here it is. Are you ready?

You open up your mouth, and you tell them. Now you might be thinking “easier said than done!” Or “but what if it gets awkward?” Well here’s the thing. There’s never a good time to bring something up. Especially stuff that might be bothering you or that you’re not 100% comfortable with yourself. And therefore you just gotta do it. RIP off the bandaid.

This is gonna sound like a lame example but here goes. So I was having an issue with the way my SO made out. Basically he’d do the same motion with his tongue as when he was eating me out. Now that motion is great when you’re getting eaten out, but not so great for kissing. So the next time we made out I pulled back and went “babe. You’re not eating out my mouth. Pls stop” and that was it. He changed his technique and now it’s all great. Communication is key to any great relationship. If you can’t talk openly with your partner you probably shouldn’t be with them. But yeah. Hope that helps some of you. It definitely helped me.