So when we found out we were pregnant my fiancées best friend asked if she could throw us a gender reveal. At first we were apposed to it then we gave in and said ok 🤦🏽‍♀️ why did we agree? Ugh! Idk! Now I’m having second thoughts like, I don’t want to wait for a party to be planned out, my fiancées family lives in a different state so they wouldn’t be able to come last minute, and I just feel like this is something I want us to know before anybody else does or at least at the same time as everybody else

. I know there are ways around that last one, but she asked to throw us a gender reveal party so I’m sure that means she wants the sealed envelope to know and plan how she would surprise us... what do I do about this? Just suck it up and get it over with? Say something to my fiancée? 😫😫😫 idk what to do!!!