Orgasms

Ok, so I’m just curious, how many women are in long term relationships that struggle with their man actually putting in the effort and succeeding at getting you off? Maybe it’s just laziness but I can’t figure out how to get him to put more effort into it. The sex itself is amazing but I’m not getting what I need most of the time. I also don’t want his manhood to be hurt by me saying this, again. I’ve brought this up in the past but haven’t in a while so it’s been a reoccurring issue.