If so what advice can you offer about leaving in particular advice about how to get your necessities ie food and housing after leaving wo help from others. In the end are you glad you left even thought just getting by w necessities is very very difficult or do you wish you’d stayed and suffered the abuse for more financial ease. I can’t get any help from others definitely no long term help from others. I can’t burden my parents w taking care of me long term financially because I left. And they’ve made it clear they have no ability to give me any long term financial help. They hate that I’m with him but at the same time they definitely don’t want me leaving him. While he’s a terror the two of us together are pretty financially stable and alone it would be really bad. Please don’t write back if you’ve never been in a situation like this and want to blame me for being abused because I “let it happen” because I don’t just leave. Fell free to comment though even if you’re not disabled. I wouldn’t be getting any additional spousal support upon leaving because we never got married for real to prevent me

Lossing my disability. We were together 10 years now. I’d say things started going down hill when we got engaged and

Have been going more

Down hill ever since. I think 2013 is when we got engaged about this time of year. I’ve tried couples therapy many times and it doesn’t work. He gets betterish for a couple months so we

Quite couples and then goes down hill again. The total amount of money I have from

Disability after my insurance is paid is 1200 ish. I already do get extra help on meds and stuff like that and some on insurance. I’ve been looking at several

Different cities trying to find anywhere in a decently safe neighborhood including Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, and North Carolina oxford or Durham. Another problem is even if I could afford to drive a car I don’t want to be driving on the drugs I take. Definitely at times I consider it totally unsafe for me to drive due to my meds. Any ideas welcome.