I posted yesterday about my best friend of ten years not being happy for me. (I’m not going into details about the things she’s done to show me that, this isn’t to bash her)She struggles with infertility and I’ve always felt that she’s envied my relationship with my daughter and current pregnancy. A lot of people told me I should not talk to her about my kids and my current pregnancy. Let me say this I will not be limited on what I talk about, my kids are my entire world and I refuse to feel like I have to hide them. I refuse to not talk about the most important aspects of my life, the reason I wake up and smile, the reason I try to be the best person I can I refuse. To let anyone woman man best friend, husband, sister, brother idc I refuse! I won’t let anyone make me feel like my kids are a burden or that I shouldn’t talk about them no way. So I’ve decided to end my friendship, my kids come first and always will. When you have kids they become your entire world and if I can’t share a piece of that with you we can’t be friends. I wish her the best and hope that she has kids one day so she can truly understand how I feel right now. And for the people that told me I would do the same things to her that she’s doing to me if the tables were turned should be ashamed and are probably shitty friends. When I’m a friend I love with all my heart I couldn’t imagine her speaking of her kids and me becoming agitated.