I feel like every post I'm seeing today is woman finding out at 9 / 10dpo

Maybe I'm just noticing it more because I'm 9dpo, and got a negative today. I can't help but feel like it's not my months. I know it's still early but how on earth do SO many woman find out at 9dpo? I swear that's all I'm seeing 😭 someone give me hope.... how early did you find out?