So I've been seeing a guy for a month but we dont have a label or anything. When we hookup he tells me when hes cumming if I'm giving him head, but when we have sex he never tells me (we dont use condoms and I'm on birth control and I'm okay with it, no stds).

So is it rude of me to ask for him to do certain things during sex when we aren't even dating? I'd want to ask for him to let me know when hes cumming cause it gets kinda messy, also I'd like to know when to stop riding him 😂 or just other things that are hot to me.