Okay , I have a boyfriend he’s older he has a few kids but he has 1 kid on the way ! Yeah she’s still pregnant (don’t judge me) the baby could be due anytime actually.. okay don’t judge me but he’s my boyfriend we been talking for a while & recently she found me on social media she inboxed me Asking So many Questions!!!! Then she blocked me out of no where. I asked who she was because I didn’t know he replied “My child mother please block her” but I didn’t & I looked couple days later I’m blocked on her page! I haven’t really heard from her since me &Him continues our relationship. He claims he love me & he wants to have kids with me. (He has 2 kids already 2 different Bms. He has 1 on the way ! So that makes it 3 kids 3Bms) he says he loves me& I believe he does. But the newest bm I complain about. I don’t like how they keep messing with each other & he go over her house. Ok I understand y’all have a baby together but the baby isn’t even born yet. Why are you over there. She be posting his music /Giving Him shoutouts! BASICALLY I know they do more then just talking. I don’t know any better I’m young (under 20) he’s over 25, I wish I can stop talking to him ! I CAN !! But it’s hard

I have a 2nd acct. I decided to Look on Her Page & She posted a Picture and I seen he commented “My love 😍” LIKE ARE You serious ? I explain to him why does he still talk to her , he doesn’t get it he keep saying “That’s the mother of my child. I can’t talk to her ? I have to” ETC Bullshit

Okay I understand that’s the mother of your child but it’s certain shit you do to a certain extent !! The child is not here yet ! So you shouldn’t be over there chillin , you shouldn’t be this friendly with her especially if you have a girlfriend. ESPECIALLY If your having Sex with Me. He keep saying he wants to have kids. He’s not a Dead Beat. I just think he too friendly with his BMS. He does not see that!

But like I said “I don’t know any better. It’s my fault for keep talking to him”

That’s about the only problem I have in our relationship! He’s just too friendly with her. He’s a nice guy. He’s always there for me. I can’t even complain. It’s just that’s the only thing that pisses me off!!

It’s not a everyday thing when he goes over there/ talk to her. But when it happens it’s noticeable. It’s mentioned. & Of Course they most likely Text. SO Ain’t No Telling What’s In Them Messages!!!! But I’m still young. So of course I have a people trying to talk to me. & he always tripping about that. He always trippin when I post a picture that’s revealing. Or just anything Related to me “being single, Looking Single”

Every time I bring up me. & our relationship & how I feel. He gets defensive! Says stuff like. “I don’t know what you saying this for. You not going any where , you mines forever “ he actually starts getting defensive. He be looking at me with the mean stare. I sometimes be scared of him I ain’t gone lie.

Update : I asked why are they not together

He said the first bm Fucked his Brother

The 2nd : was a mistake the condom broke .

& the 3rd - they cordial , it’s Regular

I maybe could be the side chick! But he has no Problem coming over being with me. He’ll even Take pictures with me. He would go live put me in it! He even be making statuses & post about me when I irritate him.

Oh yeah. He’ll be quick to call hisself single if I ask do he still Mess with him Bm (messing with her heavy)

Am I overreacting?

What do you think ??

No rude answers