Did my ex just play me.. wow

My ex and I broke up 4 months ago. Before we broke up, I went through a miscarriage. My son and him had a super bond as well. It was a really amazing relationship but we fought too much.

Recently we’ve got back in contact and hung out. We ended up getting drunk the first time we hung out again and reminisced about everything. We cried, laughed, everything.

He told me he still loves me and always will. We ended up having sex that night. Then we spent a couple more days together after that.

The thing is.... he will call me sometimes and we’ll talk for hours on the phone but then some days he will barely talk to me or not talk to me at all. Especially when I text him about still liking him. He will barely spend time on a text or just won’t reply/take HOURS to reply.

Am I getting played? Ugh. Or is he playing hard to get. :(

Btw he has said once that his intentions aren’t to date me but then a couple days later he asked if I would date him again and will talk about how much he misses what we had and blah blah. I feel like it’s genuine but idk. I’m just so confused.