How long have you been TTC? And what methods are you taking while trying ???

I’ve been with my husband for 11 years we have only been married for 2. I have not been pregnant the whole time or even got a positive on a pregnancy test . I have a 13 year old and that was the only time that I have gotten pregnant . Every time I think this is it .... here comes my cycle 😩😩😩😩 I know it could be on my husbands end as well but just looking for any helpful tips