Would you be hurt too?
My one cousin who I’m very close to although we don’t talk all the time forgot my birthday to the point she still hasn’t acknowledged my birthday.
I talked to her 2 days before my birthday so I figured my chat would still be close to the top on her Snapchat. I had her blocked from seeing my story cuz of personal reasons but I unblocked it and posted about my birthday so she would see it. I don’t think she ended up seeing it. But, I also had tagged her in a post on my story on insta of a pic I posted a year ago on my birthday but she never looked at it. I don’t think she goes on Instagram very often but I posted several times on my birthday on Instagram.
I haven’t said anything to her about it cuz I was kinda hoping today she’d say something to me. I think she blocked me from seeing her story (she doesn’t know I blocked her) cuz on my old account I can see her story but not on my current. And today she posted about some girl she knows birthday.
Now I’m not the best with birthdays as I only have a few birthdays memorized. I try to put them in my phone but I don’t have a lot yet. However i always tell her happy birthday on her bday. And I know it’s not a big deal but she’s my family, I don’t want a present just an acknowledgment of my birthday cuz my 18th is a big deal. At least in my family. I get it she forgot but snapchat tells you when it’s someone’s bday and I have mine set to my bday so it showed her and I posted it on insta and snap so idk. When I saw she posted some other girls birthday my heart kinda dropped.. my feelings are hurt, I’m not gonna say anything to her I don’t want to be rude and say “you know Wednesday was my birthday” like I’d feel rude saying that. She’s one of the few cousins (she’s a year older than me) around my age who I’m very close to but I don’t get to see her often cuz she lives in Indiana and I live in Michigan so it’s 4 ish hours away.
I completely understand forgetting someone’s birthday as I have to be reminded of peoples birthdays. But a few years ago on my birthday I visited for my other cousins grad and they knew it was on the day of my birthday. I’m not mad my feelings are hurt. Cuz I posted it on insta I thought for sure she’d see or maybe her mom would remind her or something. Idk how would you guys feel? I’m gonna move on from it but I just now saw her post about the other girls birthday and that’s why my feelings are hurt
I didn’t block her Snapchat I stopped her from being able to see my story
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