My daughter started pre k this fall. Her teacher and I have gotten along right from the beginning... She is also pregnant, about 2 weeks ahead of me... I asked her today how she was doing as I waited for my daughter to clean up and get her stuff to go home. Her teacher told me that things were not going the way she hoped, that things where difficult. I asked her if it was ok if I ask what was going on.... She informed me that the baby is not growing. The baby is measuring 22 weeks and she is 27 weeks and the arms and legs are smaller than that. She said that her little girls heart is enlarged and her intestines aren't as developing the way they should. The doctors think that it's a chromosome abnormality and the outcome can be a still birth or she might live for a week or two...

My heart is broken. I want for her baby to be ok, she would be a wonderful mother. She is so patient and kind to my daughter. She told me that she knows it's all in God's hands... I agree completely. I just feel like I should do something. But not sure what.... I don't want my pregnancy to make her upset... Especially since we were due so close together and both are girls. I want to help heal her pain and not make it harder on her. Any suggestions? Or should I just try to distance myself...