I don’t know what to do anymore

So my husband and I have been married for almost a year and a half. Here recently, it feels like all we do is fight. I’ve tried to get him to start marriage counseling with me but he absolutely refuses.

I’m currently in my last semester of my 2 year college, and I’m looking to transfer to a 4 year. had a lot of health issues in the past, and so my grades have dropped over the past few semesters. I live in Indiana, and there’s very few college options for the degree I am wanting to study. I want to move to Evansville so I can attend my dream school. It’s 2 hours away from where we live currently. My husband is telling me that he absolutely does not want to move. We live with my parents, he has a job, I go to school, and we have no kids. I’ve explained how much this means to me, and how dedicated I am to getting this degree. He still wants no part of it.

He’s told me in the past how he wants to have a nice house, and cars, and travel all the time and I’ve tried to explain that me getting a job and saving that money would help work towards that goal. It seems like He doesn’t want me getting a job.

There’s a lot more I could go into. Just to put in perspective, when I got my hair cut, he told me he hated it and that he wished I would’ve left it alone (I hadn’t had a haircut since before our wedding and this happened about a week ago)

I’ve tried talking to my mom about this, because she’s my best friend and has a good way of being impartial, and she tells me that he’s being manipulative and abusive. I don’t know if I should leave him, or what because it feels like he isn’t willing to try to do anything to better our relationship. Am I overreacting? I just don’t know what to do.

*I love my hair, I don’t know why he hates it so much. I took a *small* risk and did something I’ve always wanted and shaved part of my hair.