The movie “Monster in-law” is real!!

Ya know when I met my husbands family I thought his mom and his sister were very nice ladies. One year into the relationship his sister does her own thing, after saying “family first”, and doesn’t want anything to do with my husband and I. His mom became so “victim”, not sure if you guys know what I mean. His mom all of a sudden acts like she is the one being attacked and not being liked by me. I work 9hrs a day and when I get home I cook and clean then shower. I don’t have time for her silliness and honestly I’m tired of her and how she plays the “victim” in all of this. She has moved in with us because “no one wants her or loves her”. So my husband being a good son said “ok”. Since she’s been living with us for 2yrs now it’s hell living with her and dealing with her comments. “Oh your cooking that?, oh I don’t think that is suppose to be cooked that way, why are you cleaning?!” Ya know she goes into my room when I’ve told her time and time again not to go into my room for any reason. Things like that bug me but I don’t get mad or snap at her, but I’m getting to the point I might snap at her and tell her how I really feel. I stay quite because of my husband. Idk When I was first asked “oh you like your mother in law?” I was shocked to hear that from women who have been married for years...well I know why now. 4yrs later into our marriage I’m starting to understand. I don’t like to use this word, “hate”, but I think I may start “hating” my mother in law. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Sorry about my rant, please tell me I’m not alone I’m feeling this way?!

UPDATE::

Thank you ladies! Is it always like this with in laws? I thought I was going to be different, but it’s hard because I love my husband but now a big fan of his mom.