Hello, first off my name is Celena I am 21 years old. I have a boyfriend for 3 years now, but he is on the autism spectrum. And I just recently unofficially found out that I am as well.

Okay so a year ago him and his mom moved a couple states away, and besides it doing a bit difficult in general, things have been even more difficult.

We still dont know a whole lot about each other, and I've sent him many emails with questions to get to know him and asking if he can respond to them but he hasn't done that. He doesn't like video call or calling in general, doesn't usually text me unless I text him first. I've tried telling him that sometimes when I dont text him at night when we usually do saying good nights and I love yous and asking and telling about our day before going to bed, that I just would like for him to text me first sometimes. Cause it to me seems like I'm making a lot of effort trying to make us still work, I'm feeling like I'm not getting the love and attention that I feel like I need from him, and I try messaging him throughout the day when I am not too busy. What should I do? I want to stay with him, cause we both have talked about how we want to get married and have kids, but now since he's moved and things are more distant than ever I dont feel our spark anymore, not even when he does do video calls with me. Help me please