Hi all!

So I’ve been going on dates with a guy I met on tinder. First date we met up last minute at a bar for an hour or two in the evening (about 10pm) and then went for a walk before ending the night. I told him I wanted to take things slow and how I’m pretty traditional when it comes to dating. He said he respected that and even asked “so no kiss on the first date?” and I laughed and said no.

To my surprise he wanted to meet for a second date and we went to his favorite burger spot. Then went on another walk. (Around 1pm) This time we talked for 4 hours at the park before parting ways. I learned that he was traditional as far as dating and wasn’t into the whole “hooking up culture”. He asked me questions about future goals, what looked for in a guy (non physically) etc. We parted ways without a kiss again!

Now, today He invited me to his place (around 5pm) to hangout and grab a bite to eat. I couldn’t help but look online and many blogs say that if a guy invites you to his house he’s expecting sex...especially if it’s the third date! Do you ladies think that’s what he would expect? I mean, we haven’t kissed yet, or even actually held hands at all! Plus I’m swinging by around 5pm lol. That’s not a booty-call hour...right? I get a good vibe from him and wouldn’t mind a make-out seas lol. But I just don’t want to give the idea that I want to jump in bed with him lol.

What do you think? Am I thinking too much into this?

****UPDATE****

Thanks for the comments!

So I went over and he definitely was interested in getting physical. I told him I didn’t come there for sex or anything sexual. He respected and understood that I wanted to go slow,slow. He said he still wants to see me. So eh I’m unsure about more dates. I like him, he’s sweet but there was a point where he touched my boob without my permission so eh. I’m starting to feel like an object instead of someone he genuinely wants to get to know. What do you think?

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