My boyfriend has been talking about moving in for about 3 months now. He said he wanted to wait until summer so he would have more time since college is done for now. But now that summer is here and college is over he says he doesn’t want to because he’s scared that he’ll get annoyed by me because we’d be spending too much time together and it’ll end with us breaking up. He says that if we do end up breaking up, he’d have to move into his own apartment, since he wouldn’t be allowed to move back in with his parents-another reason he doesn’t want to move in.

I really don’t know what to do and he seems not to care how hurt I am by this, one of my friends said I should give him the choice of moving in or us breaking up, but i’m scared he’ll choose breaking up and I don’t want that... But i don’t see a point to staying together if he thinks we can’t live together. Please help me