Is it bad that I want to secretly stop taking my birth control so my boyfriend and I have a baby....? We both want kids and I'm so ready but I think it scares him. I'm aching to have my rainbow baby and I hurt so bad

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NO . that is NOT OKAY to betray him. You cannot TRICK somebody into having their baby! Its a Choice that should Be MUTUAL, & you said he's probably scared, so don't trick him into having a child with you. Talk to him about how you feel.

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My husband and I are ttc. I once asked him what he would do in this situation, if we were both ready but I would have 'tricked him' in to it. (I WOULD NEVER DO IT!!!) He said he would leave me, and this would be the only reason he would be able to just leave. Even if your boyfriend is ready or you think he'll love it in the long run, it's not worth it. Your starting your "family" on lies xxx

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Most every girl has had this thought. Even me, but instead I talked with my husband and let him know that I don't want to prevent pregnancy just if it happens then it happens. It does take time to get pregnant for some us girls.  Please talk with him and tell him how you feel about wanting to start a family. It's best to be honest

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NOT okay. The boy is just as much apart of that as you and if you bring a child into the world before he is ready because of something stupid you did you'll be sorry. Don't put him in that situation when he is under the impression y'all are being safe. That would be incredibly selfish

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Im sorry for your lost but if I were you I would just talk to him about it.

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I'm 16, turning 17 in two months- graduating this year, and I did the same thing. I'm now 4 weeks and 6 days pregnant. Talk to me if you ever need to!

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I think maybe it could actually be a surprise for him if he wants a baby it shouldn't matter ❤️👶🏻

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I made sure he was ready for sure first though.

Is it bad that I want to secretly stop taking my birth control so my boyfriend and I have a baby....? We both want kids and I'm so ready but I think it scares him. I'm aching to have my rainbow baby and I hurt so bad

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