He’s my boyfriend but not my boyfriend?

So me and my boyfriend of 4 years decided to break things off about a year ago. I’ve healed, I’ve gotten back into the dating pool and yes, I love him but he was my first everything so I would assume some feelings will always be there. But I’m at a good place.

The issue is, he still treats me like I’m his girlfriend to an extent. Our breakup was mutual, he didn’t want marriage...I wanted marriage. He wasn’t ready for like true commitment etc so we split ways. But he FaceTime, text, and snapchats me all the time. He calls and we are on the phone for hourrrrs! He gives me money when I ask etc. One time, when I was sad (without asking him) he drove 2 hours to see me. Got us a hotel, bought me food, and even took me shopping. He spent well over 700 dollars that weekend on me.

He does all of this for me....but he won’t commit to marriage or even just being my bf. Yeah we’ve hooked up a few times but most times we don’t. When he came the time i was sad we didn’t have sex once. He just wanted to spend time with me. He calls me beautiful and “His”, gives me his credit card etc but won’t commit....

What do you take of this? I mean I’m appreciative of him but I just feel awkward about it sometimes....I still can date other guys and he can date other girls but I’m just surprised he still treats me like this. He doesn’t get a lot of women, whereas I get attention and go on date with other guys all the time.

So yeah, what do you all think? I’m curious about an outsiders point of view haha!