How come my kids don't matter?

How come nobody will love ours kids like they say they do?

Why do people lie and say they love them? why when the parents fall out one side is bitter and can't be bothered to ask about them but can comment on your posts on FB saying they look cute or how sweet. But no I love them's or nothing.

Dead beat family members suck dick. I'm hurting so much for my kids they love their dad and Grandma's and uncles and aunts. How do I help them cope ? 😪