partners daughter.

Let me start off by saying me and my partner have been together for 5 years. we both have daughters from previous relationships and we have a 12 week old son together.

I have an absolute massive issue with my partners daughter, mother & heck even sometimes my partner with the way they are with her! she is 8 years of age & her behaviour is absolutely awful. but her parents do absolutely nothing about it. She comes and stays with us every other weekend.. she recently found an app on her tablet (her mother gave it her and is obviously not been keeping an eye on what she’s doing on there) it’s like a social media site where you can upload videos etc. I found a video of her singing and swearing, so i immediately sent what i had found to her mother, (she didn’t seem that bothered) i decided to take a look at my daughters ipad & the app had been downloaded on to her ipad but no account had been made, so i asked my daughter about this & she told me my partners daughter had put it on there. i ended up telling my daughter off and banning her from her ipad for the rest of the day due to her having this app on there when she knows she’s not to download anything.

Anyway so i decided to look into this app a little more & downloaded it on to my phone to search the account my partners daughter had been using, well let me tell you what i found, i found videos of MY 11 week old son on there!! with god knows how many ‘likes’ by random people & even comments from men with winking faces! as you can imagine i was absolutely LIVID and phoned my partners, daughters mum telling her what i had found & that i was absolutely fuming. She said she would sort it, i phoned my partner explaining what had happened & that i was extremely upset.

a couple of days later i found a text on my partners phone from his daughters mum saying that she hadn’t mentioned anything to their daughter about the videos as shes too young to understand! that same girl that comes into my house that pressures my daughter into swearing and doing naughty things! of course i’m not happy and it’s caused a massive argument between me & my partner. that fact that i’m fed up that his daughter gets no discipline when doing wrong, by my daughter does? my daughter is younger than his daughter, i am literally at my whitsend with it all & i literally don’t know what to do. How is it fair that she has got away with doing what she has but my daughter hasn’t.. need some advice because i can’t take much more of the favouritism! 😓