Military wives...i need advice.

My husband just got out of basic. Ever since he came back he has been so distant. I feel as if he resents me. We had planned to try for a second child when he got back. He has touched me maybe 5 times since he got back a month ago. He is constantly annoyed at me or mad at me for I dont even know what. Mad that I didnt do things while he was gone that I couldnt do cause he didnt give me access to the documents I would need. So much I could have done but he didnt make it to where I would be able too. Now I feel as big as an ant and really feel like the only reason he hasnt left ia our daughter but that he's forcing himself to stay but isnt willing to work anything out. I'm devistated to put it mildly. What can I do? Please someone give me some useful advice.....