Am I overreacting?

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About 3 weeks ago I found out my husband was “talking" to other women on social media and giving his number out. Although he has never physically cheated I decided to give him another chance as long as Facebook was deleted. I deleted mines as well so he wouldn’t feel as if he was being submissive. Anyway. He reopened Facebook without telling me and tried to say he was going to. We agreed that passwords would be exchanged if we were going to work forward with our marriage. It’s been two days and I’ve been arguing with him about a passwords. I feel like I might be overdoing it but then again, I’m the only one that has been cheated on the whole 9 years together. Yea I know 9 years is a long time to be stupid but I feel that nothing and no one should come between our union. I am a month away from having our 4th child and I’m confused as to handle this situation. I don’t like fighting but I feel that if I’m forgiving you for the 100th time you could at least give me what you promised me. Suspicions are high because of this and I just wanna relax and prepare for baby.

Accepted Answer

He has no intentions on changing. He will continue to talk to women. If that is acceptable to you, stay if not- he has already shown you he does not care about your feelings.

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You are definitely not over reacting. He’s been cheating 9 years . He doesn’t care and isn’t going to change .

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Wait, you guys haven been together that long and he has cheated on you the whole time? Nah sis, someONE already been in between y’all. Wow

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Why would he stop when you literally let it happen and do absolutely nothing about it? He has his cake and eats it too. 9 years of this? Just let him cheat in peace🙄

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Girl, I’m going to be brutally honest.
Leave. Stop giving him chances. If I have to be honest, you should have left him the first time he cheated. This is a prime example of “once a cheater, always a cheater” 
I’ve seen a lot of posts like this on this app regarding social media in relationships and I personally believe in the whole concept of partners not wanting their significant other on social media or the concept of having to share passwords is ridiculous. If you feel as though you need to do this, it’s because of a lack of trust, trust being broken, and obvious insecurities.
In your case, you have a legitimate reason to do this but honestly, you know that he’s going going to change. What he’s been doing has been disrespectful from the start and it’s tome that you let him go.
Focus on yourself and then find someone who actually cares about you.

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You let him do what he wants in all reality. So he gonna keep on doing it until you leave him.

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At this point, get yourself a side piece. He needs a dose of his own medicine and you need a man who can take care of your feelings.

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Girl, leave. He ain’t going change. Say bye

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100th time? Sure, it’s an exaggeration; but you’re inviting the behavior at this point.

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“Nothing and no one should come between our union” what union? Someone has already came between your union over and over again for 9 years. Good luck 🙄

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