How do I bring myself to give a blowjob??

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Okay y'all. I've been married to my husband for almost a year. I love him so so so much, for the love of all that is ever so jiggly. Let me just get to the point. We have sex and everything but when it comes to sucking dick, I just can't seem to bring myself to it. I want to do it, but something about the idea of it pushes me away. I know he wants me to do it and he does ask me to, but I always end up running away from it! He never forces me to do it off course but I want to please my mans but your girl over here being a lil bitch. 
So what I want to ask is, how do you other girls approach it?? What's your view on it?? How do you bring yourself to do it or see it?? Please help a sister out.

P. S. Do you guys recommend anal?? I know it hurts like hell from other girls expressing it to me. But my husband would also like to give it a try and I'm just.. not too excited. 
Thanks in advance girls. You my saviour.

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What about it is bothering you, do you think? 
You could try immediately after a shower, and just tell yourself it's just another bit of skin. 
But definitely don't do anything you're not comfortable with! It's 100% ok to have things you don't want to do and I'm glad your hubby is respecting your boundaries 😊

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You’re willing to try anal before giving a blowjob 😂 wth a blow job is WAY EASIER than anal

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Dont do it if it's something you don't wanna do. I enjoy giving them so I've never had to make myself want to give one so I can't help you there.  But maybe just think how much your man would enjoy it.

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I read this as “how do I give myself a blowjob” I’m too tired. But if you aren’t comfortable with it then don’t do it. I give my husband blow jobs but that’s just because it’s something I’m comfortable doing and I like to do. If you force yourself to do something you don’t like it’s not going to be enjoyable at all

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In terms of blow jobs I don’t have any advice since I usually am open to and enjoy doing it. For anal I’ve tried it once or twice and didn’t find it hurt at all really - your man just has to go very slowly and work with you, and the second you tell him to stop he needs to. If he’s too rough you could bleed which is dangerous so it’s important to be careful and lubricate very well. If you’re not comfortable then don’t do it since that’s usually why it hurts

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I had a difficult time giving head for awhile. Like another lady mentioned, I started with kisses and licking. Then I started just sucking on the tip. Now I can go down all the way on my man. I just cant do it for very long. 
As far as anal goes, start by having your hubby use a finger with one of those finger cots or really small anal plug and LOTS of lube. Go slow. Also, as weird as it sounds try to have a BMI the clean back there really well before you start playing back there. It might feel like you have to go at 1st but that feeling will pass relatively quickly. There are a ton of nerve endings in and around there and it can fell really good.

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I never use to but I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse.
I think we were together 7 years before I did my first full attempt.
I started to get over the fear factor just kissing his penis then licking and kissing then one day I went for it. 
I find it best in a 69 situation I feel at ease doing it like this.  I still struggle to just surprise him with a bj. But he knows I like to try. We have been together 20 years and he is so patient with me.

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Just gotta do it! Before you let yourself think about it just go for it. Sometimes I have to amp myself up to do it but it’s not bad at all. Now anal... nope. Not fun to me at all. It always made me feel like I had to shit for the next day or so.. just not a pleasant after feeling

How do I bring myself to give a blowjob??

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