To the women who told me i do not deserve to be pregnant,

I understand your frustration. You heard me speaking to my boyfriend saying how i hate my pregnancy, saying how i will never get pregnant again and i absolutely want my tubes tied, you heard me say i just dont want to be pregnant anymore, so i understand your frustration.

You came up to me after overhearing our conversation and told me “ you don’t deserve to be pregnant, i wish i could get pregnant and to here you speak that way about your pregnancy sickness me. “ I was in shock, wow. but what you don’t understand is, you haven’t been in my pregnancy.. you haven’t seen or known what ive been going through.

What you did not know is i have an extremely high risk pregnancy, I have cervical issues that are going to make me deliver at 30-32 weeks instead of full term, i have been in and out of the hospital continuously, being pumped full of all kinds of medication, being told i cannot leave my bed, being told all these things, i have spent my nights just bawling because i dont know why my pregnancy is like this, my entire pregnancy has been a struggle and for my doctor to tell me i have a 80% chance of it happening with the next pregnancy, so you caught me on a bad day.

I love the little girl i am carrying, but all this is a lot on me. im young, im only 17. im sorry you caught me on a bad day, but please watch what you say to another pregnant women because like i said.. you dont know what im going through..